Sunday, 17 May 2009

Get Back With My Ex With These Steps

By Frank oConnell

After my relationship ended, I went took me over a month and some new skills to get back with my ex. Unlike gaining the affections of someone new, it was much harder to get back my ex, because I needed to woo someone that already knew me.

The end of any relationship will indicate that something was not going right in a relationship. In order to successfully get my ex back, you must be willing to makes certain changes and sacrifices in order to ensure the next relationship will not go along the same path as the previous one.

After the breakup, I gave my ex some time to adjust to the change and understand what had happened. Once I felt enough time had gone by, I began contacting my partner. This initial contact was not to talk about the breakup, nor was it to discuss how they felt. My phone-call was simply to ask how they were doing. After the initial contact, I slowly increased the frequency of the contact, until my ex almost expected me to phone or email.

While spending time with them, the process of getting back your ex will differ for guys and girls.

To get back your ex man, you should demonstrate to him how much you have changed for the better. And to remind him of how good a couple you were, you should try do the same old activities with him. This will also make him realize what he has been missing out on.

Just keep cool and confident and prevent scaring him off by obsessing over how he feels, what he thinks, and why the breakup happened.

In winning back your ex woman, you need to provide her with some emotional support. Girls want to know that you can support her emotional needs. To show her you are capable of supporting hers, let her know that you genuinely respect her thoughts and feelings.

To get my ex back I paid close attention and listen carefully to what she had to say. But I still stayed a little distant to make sure I never just became friends with her.

Taking this advice to get back with my ex was a good start, but obviously there was more to it than this.

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