Sunday, 31 May 2009

How Do You Know If A Guy Likes You?

By Ray Orbine

Worried that men are not throwing themselves at you feet? Are you in a dead end relationship? Are you ready to give up the search and wait for love to find you? If any of these scenarios describes your situation you may fall into one of two groups of women. The first are experiencing a period of low self worth.

The remaining females have resigned themselves to a passive, secure method: they have abandoned dating completely and promised only to go out again if a man comes to them and shows that he is ready for love. Neither one of these methods is good for you, specifically if you want to enjoy yourself. Here are several tips for stopping your routine and returning to the pastime of luring men.

Hoping in the background for the ideal stranger to come into your life is a risky thing to do. It is possible that you will still be lost in the background for 10, 20, 30 years in the future! To have a better chance of getting Mr. Right, you have to know how men think. This requires practice and sometimes, several failures.

Some women naturally attract hoards of men for some inexplicable reason. This may be because of a biological reason or because of their behavior, but it's hard to tell. If you haven't been bestowed with this gift, you should concentrate on how men and women interact to see how you should act.

It is good if you consider dating to be a job. If you are similar to many females, you have invested much time and effort into finding out the fundamentals and improving the ways to be attractive. This is normal and vital also.

For most women, a caring relationship means just as much to them as their careers, and maybe more. They should put forth the same effort and be devoted to this. Being aware of how to capture a man's attention is as necessary for you to be happy as it is to be satisfied with your career and to have enough money saved in the bank.

To understand how to attract men, you have to understand how men think, so you should read magazine articles directed to men to learn about their thought processes.

Although reading articles is a good way to learn, the best way to learn is from the source. Talk to men and try to understand how they are feeling and what attracts them. Watch them, listen to what they say and remember to pay attention!

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