You are home after a date with yet another guy. It didn't go well. You find yourself imagining getting back with your ex.
After the relationship ends, you may move on to new people. But, when you always catch yourself thinking of ways to get your ex back, is there anything that you can do to rekindle that old romance?
There are, and in this article, I present you with four strategies for getting back with your ex.
1 - Clear your energy from other people:
Forget about dating other people for the moment. You need to prepare yourself mentally, physically and spiritually for getting back with your ex. If you are spending your time flirting with someone else, going on dates, or even worse, sleeping with them, you are not ready for getting back with an ex. Instead, you should be thinking about the relationship, where it went wrong, and how you plan to make it work this time round.
2 - Maintain your dignity:
Don't chase your ex, flooding them with hundreds of text messages, calling him at odd times of day, or stalking him. Also, you need to make him respect you and treat you well. Don't be a doormat.
You will only command your ex's respect and love when you are yourself at your best. Hold your head high. You will increase your chances of getting back with your ex if you do.
3 - Make a list of the things you appreciate about your ex:
Once you get that chance at getting back together with an ex, keep things fresh and exciting. So try new things, go out to different places together, take up a new hobby, and meet new people. By making the environment different as to what it was when the break up happened, you will have a better chance at getting back with an ex for good, instead of things going stagnant.
Next, when you get back together, try changing some of the circumstances. Go to new places and try new things. Take up a new hobby together. Meet new people. By changing the environment of your relationship, you have a better chance of making it work. Don't fall into the same old patterns of your relationship. You may even want to tune your relationship down a notch. If you were living together, try having separate places for a while. If you were engaged, try just dating. In winning your ex back, don't try to force your relationship back into old patterns.
4 - Create a shared sense of destiny.
You need to create a shared sense of destiny, and plan a future together. While fate does play a role in our lives, we are ultimately the ones that make the choices and write ou life script. Discuss with your partner what you want in the future. When you do this as a couple, you create a goal with each of you having a purpose.
As you think of other ways at getting back with your ex, remember to try new things and see how your ex responds to different approaches. And when you do get back together, don't fall into the same routines as before. Keep it fresh, exciting and full of purpose. And good luck!
After the relationship ends, you may move on to new people. But, when you always catch yourself thinking of ways to get your ex back, is there anything that you can do to rekindle that old romance?
There are, and in this article, I present you with four strategies for getting back with your ex.
1 - Clear your energy from other people:
Forget about dating other people for the moment. You need to prepare yourself mentally, physically and spiritually for getting back with your ex. If you are spending your time flirting with someone else, going on dates, or even worse, sleeping with them, you are not ready for getting back with an ex. Instead, you should be thinking about the relationship, where it went wrong, and how you plan to make it work this time round.
2 - Maintain your dignity:
Don't chase your ex, flooding them with hundreds of text messages, calling him at odd times of day, or stalking him. Also, you need to make him respect you and treat you well. Don't be a doormat.
You will only command your ex's respect and love when you are yourself at your best. Hold your head high. You will increase your chances of getting back with your ex if you do.
3 - Make a list of the things you appreciate about your ex:
Once you get that chance at getting back together with an ex, keep things fresh and exciting. So try new things, go out to different places together, take up a new hobby, and meet new people. By making the environment different as to what it was when the break up happened, you will have a better chance at getting back with an ex for good, instead of things going stagnant.
Next, when you get back together, try changing some of the circumstances. Go to new places and try new things. Take up a new hobby together. Meet new people. By changing the environment of your relationship, you have a better chance of making it work. Don't fall into the same old patterns of your relationship. You may even want to tune your relationship down a notch. If you were living together, try having separate places for a while. If you were engaged, try just dating. In winning your ex back, don't try to force your relationship back into old patterns.
4 - Create a shared sense of destiny.
You need to create a shared sense of destiny, and plan a future together. While fate does play a role in our lives, we are ultimately the ones that make the choices and write ou life script. Discuss with your partner what you want in the future. When you do this as a couple, you create a goal with each of you having a purpose.
As you think of other ways at getting back with your ex, remember to try new things and see how your ex responds to different approaches. And when you do get back together, don't fall into the same routines as before. Keep it fresh, exciting and full of purpose. And good luck!
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